Indian Wedding Dresses

Indian wedding is about two families getting wedded socially with much less emphasis on the individuals involved. Traditional Indian weddings are generally structured into pre-wedding ceremonies, wedding day ceremonies (consisting of the Baraat, the Varmala and the Phere), and the Vidaai.

Nowadays, there are many stores are giving lots of option for the customers and changing their personality. You have to be smart about how to camouflage your body faults and look trendy.

The main wedding apparels for an Indian wedding is Lehanga choli/ Ghagra choli. The indian dresses usually make you look slimmer and taller rather than western wear. Before buying the right Indian wedding dress, there are some certain things you need to know.

Don’t wait till the entire outfit is ready. Try the outfit when the slip of the Ghagra and choli is ready. If that is ok there won’t be any differences in the fittings.

For a jazzy look, use a gold lame blouse and a gold embroidered tissue sari.

And while choosing the Indian wedding apparel, remember that the silhouettes must be ultra feminine.

In the formal section for the Indian wedding clothes, you can have whites, and pastels dominate your formal bridal wardrobe. Get yourself a judicious mix of sarees, salwar kameez, lehenga choli, and lachas.

ARABIAN WEDDINGS

Dewaan-e-khaas

Item code : DK - 01

Indian Tents now offers Dewaan-e-khaas: This Octagon Tents with historical touch and garden pavilions is specially designed for cocktail parties, in the backyard. Erected without the center pole, this tents with a historical touch gives a rich ethnic feel of the mughal era.

Roof: Upper is made up of, water repellent, off white cotton canvas, with paisley block printing. The lining is made of maroon velvet, with a blend of hand and machine embroidery.

Walls: Floral screen-printing on the outer and rich hand work panels, in different patterns on the inside of the tents.

Frame: Erected on an eight-sided pipe frame this garden pavilion, connected with sockets, it can be pitched on hard ground as well.








Wedding Tents



When it is your big day, you simply want everything to be perfect as the way you had envisioned it. Whether the wedding is on the beach or in the small garden of your house, you definitely do not want it raining down on your dream set up and this can be well avoided, by simply adding a wedding tent to the picture. It is important to remember that wedding tents are a good option only for light to moderate rains and may not hold out during heavy rainstorms. It is also an important consideration, while buying a tent for wedding, that it be sturdy, so it doesn't give away. Usually tents are provided with thick weighted sides for the purpose. High quality wedding tents use tension ratchets to hold down the fabric of the tent for wedding.



Arabian Tents



An outdoor African experience with Arabian Nights-style tents

Experience the embodiment of elegance, style and luxury of Arabian Nights through our Arabian Tents. The exquisite hand-embroidered panels of our Arabian Tents range are fit for a Sultan or Sheik. The upper roof of our Arabian tents is made of off-white cotton canvas. Inside of Arabian tents for wedding has a lining choice of maroon or navy blue velvet, with rich mirror work and hand patch work in different patterns. The walls of the tents have floral screen-printing on the outside and rich hand embroidery in different panels on the inside. The pole frame can be put on grass or hard ground. All Arabian Tents are Custom Ordered. These Arabian tents are available in a multitude of colors and designs to fit every project or event needs.

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TIPS FOR WOMEN
Tips for Women (How to Attract Men and Save Marriage)
Attracting men is more than a one step process. Although stereotypes exist to the contrary, men are attracted to more than just physical beauty. Learning all aspects of what males are looking for isn’t difficult. However, it can be comprehensive and can sometimes even be a long term developmental process. Woman must be aware of some qualities of her man, which are appreciable. He may be a good-looking person, or have a good physique, or good at speaking or writing or good at some other tasks.
1. Advance your studies. Males are attracted to educated females. Being intelligent and knowledgeable can open yourself to a wide variety of men that you otherwise wouldn’t have the self-belief to attract.
2. Become more confident in your skin. No matter your perceived shortcomings, being confident in yourself makes you more attractive no matter who you are. Be happy with yourself, others will take note.
3. Learn to cook. The old saying is true; the quickest way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. If you can advance your culinary skills, that’s a very attractive trait.
4. Follow the latest fashion trends. While you don’t have to have a million dollar wardrobe to attract men, you should understand the latest trends in fashion.
5. Smile when you are in public. Men are attracted to friendly females. If you are smiling, that shows that you are indeed content and would most likely welcome a conversation.
6. Concentrate on becoming self-reliant. If you can support yourself financially and emotionally, those are very attractive traits. It will also help you down the line in having more freedom in life. You never want to depend on another person for your well-being.
7. Appreciate him about their qualities. Men unfortunately never normally appreciate their men colleagues or friends about their qualities. If his woman gives him recognition and appreciate him for those qualities, he would feel good and love you more.
8. Your man needs you to help him fight his battles. Your man needs you to get appreciation. Your man needs you to know that he is good. Give him the love and appreciation that he deserves.
9. Common sense tells us that a woman can become a better foundation compared to the man. But common sense deceives us very often. Every marriage has its own problems and characteristics. If the man is more concerned and more intelligent, he will save the marriage and if the woman is more concerned, she will save the marriage.
It will depend upon the ability and desire of both the partners. No one can say that women are better suited to save the marriage. Sometimes they wreck it. As said, the partner who is more intelligent and values the marriage more will save it through all the obstacles. However, it is concluded that from very early times that women can easily save the marriages with the power of her love and care.

TIPS FO MEN

How to Attract Women (How to Impress Girls)
If you are attracted to a girl and want her to notice you and go out with you, all you need to do is impress her. Impressing a girl is not that difficult. You just have to be caring and gentle. You need to show her that you care for her and that she is a special person and you like being with her. Following are 8 tips that will help you impress a girl.

1. Be a gentleman and take care of her needs without prompting. Open doors, offer your coat when she's cold, etc. Just show that you care and you are there for her.

2. Be strong, yet not abrasive. Women don't react well to a spineless jellyfish that won't stand up for himself, but be careful not to cross the fine line between confidence and overconfidence.

3. Express and ask about her feelings. A woman appreciates a man who is willing to talk about his feelings and is sincerely interested in hers.

4. If you're consuming alcohol, keep it social and minimal. Women don't like to be around drunk men who keep on bragging about themselves.

5. Exhibit confidence, not jealousy. The reality that she'll stay in contact with friends and acquaintances she had before she met you shouldn't threaten you. You should be open to meet her friends and get to know them.

6. Be accountable for your words and actions. Be a man of your word and let your actions show intentions and character.

7. Realize that relationships can't be bought. Don't ever measure relationship with money. Respect your relationship more than anything in the world. Keep things simple. While it's nice to be spoiled, little things are often much more appreciated and sincere. Buy her a card, not a car,

8. Treat her with the same courtesy, respect and enthusiasm in front of your friends, family and colleagues as you do in private.
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Monday, August 31, 2009
20 top sex tips for men - read & learn
1. Men aren’t irresistible and not all women are desperate for sex. Good lovemaking starts long before you reach the bedroom, so before any date, have a bath. Everyone smells: some women like the smell of male sweat, others don’t, but no one likes the smell of stale sweat.

2. Teeth are as important as the groin and armpits. Don’t forget to brush them after your bath. When kissing a girl, or even sitting close to her, she won’t want to smell your bad breath or notice salad between your teeth any more than she’ll want to smell yesterday’s sweat.

3. Avoid a heavy meal before sex. Oysters and asparagus are assumed to be aphrodisiacs, but this is only because of visual or olfactory associations. Champagne is a better bet, but choose a less acidic one, lest exotic Kama Sutra-style acts cause indigestion.

4. Be careful with drink. We all know drinking increases a man’s desire but decreases his ability, but not everyone realises it also affects a woman’s sexual response. More than two or three drinks and some women may be loving but physiologically limited.

5. Any penile discharge or sore, however apparently trivial, means that sex is out. Chlamydia in the male may be almost symptom-free. It may show only as a mild inflammation of the end of the penis, so that the lips are stuck together in the morning.

6. Always use a condom with a new partner, even if she seems as innocent as a nun. Regular partners should still have chlamydia and blood tests.

7. Men fear judgment, whether by colleagues in the office, teammates in the changing room or, above all, by a new girlfriend. Penis size can worry some men. Remember that someone’s penis always looks smaller to the owner than to an onlooker. Women may prefer a medium-size but thick penis but, if a lover is attentive, even if offering a button rather than a baton, it won’t matter.

8. Don’t rush into sex and focus attention immediately on the genitalia. Take it slowly. Learn to massage. This can easily shade into great foreplay, especially if your partner is tired or stressed. Use plenty of lubrication.

9. Make certain that your partner knows how attractive you find her by paying as much attention to kissing her, complimenting her and generally spoiling her. Don’t neglect the breasts and other erogenous zones.

10. Both sexes have off days. Most men occasionally have poor or tardy erections and even fit, athletic, overenthusiastic men, as well as the inexperienced and anxious, may suffer premature ejaculation.

11. There’s no substitute for excitement. The range of lubricants on the market can add slip and slide, but should never be used as a short cut.

12. There’s more to sex than pushing the right button. Men have discovered that the key to female orgasm is clitoral stimulation, and many now rub the lamp rather than poking around inside it. The upside is that women are climaxing more often but the increase in emphasis on genital manipulation has made for some very mechanical sex. Going straight to the erogenous zones is the equivalent of fast forward. Men who focus on left breast, right breast, genitals, reduce their partner to a set of body parts.

13. Though clitoral orgasm is easy to achieve, most women want to experience penetrative orgasm. Intercourse is the ultimate connection between man and woman and the sensation of fullness that it creates is intensely pleasurable.

14. Women are slow burners. They take longer to become aroused and get as much pleasure, if not more, out of tenderness, kissing and cuddling. Though quickie sex has its place, for women on the whole, the longer sex takes, the better it feels. If arousal is allowed to build gradually, it floods the whole body rather than being confined to the genital area and a delayed orgasm is infinitely more powerful than an orgasm induced by five minutes of digital manipulation.

15. Sexual gymnastics are often distracting. Chopping and changing positions and techniques can make a woman’s sexual excitement plummet.

16. Thrusting for hours without climaxing doesn’t make you a stud muffin. It does make the vagina numb and sore.

17. Don’t assume your partner is comfortable in her own skin. A survey of 3,500 British women, by the bathroom equipment company SHUC, found that one woman in ten feels so embarrassed about her body that she turns the lights out before taking off her clothes. The average woman still spends a lot of time every day beating herself up about her weight and looks. Nakedness increases that vulnerability, so be sensitive to her insecurities and, if you think that your partner looks great, for God’s sake tell her.

18. Be polite. Never nudge your partner’s head towards your nether regions. During fellatio don’t thrust into your partner’s mouth, don’t hold the side of her head – and definitely warn her when you think you are going to come. With regard to orgasm, always operate a ladies-first policy.

19. Put a little X in your sex. Watching steamy movies with your partner will increase the chance that you will have sex.

SUHAG AT SECRETS
Wedding Night (Suhag Raat)
It is always good to be hopeful about your wedding night. But it may not be as you must have imagined it. Wedding nights determine the value and level of intimacy the couple are about to share for rest of their lives. So start it on a comfortable note.
You need to be realistic and hope for the best. The celebration would have already tired you, so the need of the hour is to relax and brush off the exhaustion. Instead of behaving awkward approach your partner as a friend. Talk, be humorous and basically feel at ease and make your partner feel the same.
Tips for Marriage Night:
1- Firstly, you need to understand your own body and what it needs. Feel free to communicate to your partner about your sexual pleasures and fantasies.
2- Take a nap after the wedding and wake up to a fresh wedding night.
3- After having woken up, you could take a shower and change your clothes to feel clean and comfortable.
4- Set the mood. Light a few candles and play soft music behind.
5- Order for room service. Invite yourself and your partner to a romantic treat. There is no need to rush things, so take it easy and enjoy every moment of the night.
6- The next step would be to share thoughts about the wedding and each other.
7- Invite each other to shake a leg or two. Add some flavor to the night and think of ways to make your partner enjoy and do the things he or she has never done maybe.
8- Present your partner with a wedding gift, diamond or chocolates for your lady and any gadget or champagne for your man.
9- Then you could start with a sensuous massage. Get used to touch and make yourself comfortable.
10- Then eventually go for a bubble bath.
Lastly, even if sex wasn’t as great as you thought it would it be, then relax, you got a lifetime to make it as exotic and beautiful
Creating an ambience of love and passion adds to the beauty of this night. So, do it with candles, wine and flowers. Let your partner be floored by you and all the things you are doing, to make this night, the best moment of your lives.
Remember These Things:
Abstain from sex for weeks or months prior to the wedding night
Don’t drink too much of alcohol as you could be clumsy or even sleepy after that
If you don’t want children so early then do take precaution and feel free to discuss with your partner.
Wedding Night, Marriage Night, Suhag Raat, Suhag Night
The Beginning:-

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Both Of You will get ready by 9.30 pm to 10.00pm. The bride will have her own make up wearing traditional saree, ornaments, mehendi.The Bride might have a chance to go to a beauty parlour to get her ready.

Usually, the elder women help her prepare for the suhaag raat by advising her what can possibly happen and how she should react. The bride on the other hand is clad in Kurta - Paizam.

Both the Bride and Bride groom are allowed to go inside the Suhaag raat room, a traditional bed having lots of different flowers is prepared. The room is scented. Usually the flowered be will have dunlop kind of matress with pillows.

A traditional "aarati" is made to bless the bride and bride groom in their sex life. Once the "aarati" is over the elders start leaving the room. The room is securely locked, and there will be only YOU.

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How To Proceed: -

Proceed very slowly. It is good chance for the bride to tell her husband what stage of her MC is, is she expecting her period or is it just over.

Suhaag Raat Should be full of foreplay, you both should be ready to spare a minimum of 5 hours for understanding each other and talking about sex. It is not worth sleeping that night. You have lot of nights to p. It is the night you have to enjoy.

ForePlay Starts : ---

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Ask her the knowledge of sex. It is not a shame if she had some previous knowledge of sex, or if she know what is kissing.. talk lot about foreplay techniques like kissing, fondling, sucking, licking...

Just talking these can arouse both of you and may make you ready for sex. But, go Very SLOWLY.

Hold her hands, see her Mehendi, try searching your name. Usually, husbands name is printed on hands. Look at her nails, nail polish..

both nails and toe.

Slowly Kiss her hands and palm and fingers. A passionate kiss on fingers may send her feeling signal to her.

Remove her finger ring.

Remove her bangles - both hands

Remove her Hand Cuffs

Remove her ear rings

Remove her bracelet

Remove her necklace

Remove her Mangalsutra

Remove her Head ornaments

Remove her Foot ornaments , if any.

Bangles make noise and may break and ornaments may be lost. Keep all removed ornaments on table or a place you ca get them easily.

Take ample time to remove ornaments/jewlerry/bangles. Ask her her help, if you cannot remove on own.

Make her bare of ornaments/ jewlerry

Proceed As Below : -

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It is time to kiss her and feel her

Kiss her on her nails, palm

Kiss her on wrist (both)

Kiss her on her hands

Kiss her on her ears

Kiss her on her back of neck

Kiss her on hair

Kiss her on forehead

Kiss her on cheeks

Kiss her on neck

Kiss her on chin

Kiss her on shoulders

Give a very passionate and very light Kiss on her LIPS. You may want to twist her and your mouth to come closer and face to face.

Kissing usually results in generating lot of feelings in her and you.

It Is Time to make her bare :-

Making a women bare when she is in Saree is a lot of fun.

Let your hands move slowly and very slowly over her shoulder in searh of saree pallu pin.

Remove the Saree Pallu Pin.

Now you have to slowly slide her saree pallu down.

WOW, WOW.....

It is great moment..... It is really great moment, you are looking at her breasts in her blouse.

Imagine the size of them.. Ask her BRA size,, front open or back open...

If women did not have sex before, she will feel shy and may cover her breasts using hands...

Let your hand move all over her blouse, hands, shoulders...

Move hands all over her BRA belt, BRA Lace ... and then all over her Breasts. It is time your hands should feel her breasts.

Kiss her brests

Kiss in between breasts

Give a Light Squeeze.

This starts increasing Womens sex feelings.

It is up to the bride groom to start removing his Kurta-Piazama....

Remove her blouse buttons one by one

Remove her blouse

WOW .... Have u seen a women in BRA...?

Time for slowly playing with her breasts. Play like

Cup her breasts using your hands

Fondle her breasts

Kiss her breasts

Slide her BRA belt and play with her naked shoulders..

Remove her BRA....



WOW ... Its all here ..... very tender, very milky, very soft... very gentle breasts in front of you...

Kiss Breasts

Kiss Nipples

s*** Nipples

Cup her breasts in hands

Lift Breasts in hands

Lick Nipples

Bite lightly on nipples

Fondle Breasts like lemon squeeze

Sure, she is now ready and must have started bit of moaning.

Give her Kiss on her LIPS. Use tongue.

It is Time to make her completely bare :-

It requires removing her saree and petticot and then a panty.

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Next Foreplay : ----

Licking all over her thighs

Licking her buttocks

Pressing her buttocks

Moving hands all over buttocks

Moving hands all over feet, legs,toes, thighs



Next Foreplay : ---

A kiss on her Cunt sends a very strong signal of feelings and prepares her.

Use your right hand and middle finger. Move hands all over her thighs and bring very near to her cunt , start teasing very near part using middle finger. You may like to start kissing her on LIPS...

Let your middle finger, start slowly go inside her cunt in search whether she is wet or not...Do, in and out... several times...

Next Foreplay :---

It is time for you to become naked and show your penis to her...

Usually it requires understanding between wife and husband about oral sex.. If she does not like .. leave it ... do not force.. her..

If she agrees.. here it goes.

You p. Let her sit near penis and bend.

She holds the penis in her soft hands

She looks at the penis

She plays with testis

She plays Penis using her hands doing up/down..

She starts kissing the penis, first on top and then middle and then bottom.

She starts licking the penis, first on top, middle and then the bottom.

She then opens her mouth and Creates a "O" shape, her lips are open wide to have perfect "O" Shape.

She bends and starts to take penis slowly in mouth.

You will surely moan, It is time for to pamper her hair, her ears.

Play with her hair and her ears.. when you are in her mouth.

DO NOT FORCE HER TO EAT YOUR CUM.. IT IS VERY BAD.. SHE MAY DISLIKE AND NEVER DO ORAL AGAIN...



TIme to Join...



All this foreplay, kissing, licking, sucking, fondling... takes to one last course.. It is intercourse or Fucking.

You find a best position. The best during suhaag raat, is she sleeps below and You p over her..

If she is not sufficiently wet, allow more foreplay. You may use hair oil in her cunt.. to make it wet..

Give Her very small jerks first.. let your penis go inside cunt slowly.

Once it reaches the limit open and insert again...

Doint this with low, medium, high jerks can cause lot of satisfaction for you and her....



Please be aware that, if she does not clot blood it does not mean that she is not vergin.. A Woemn can lose hymen as early as her childhood playing a cycle or cricket or goliii...



The suhaag raat should end in enjoyment and both of you should be relieved and happy once intercourse is over..



NOW THINK - DO WE NEED CONTRACEPTIVE, PILLS, DO WE NEED A CHILD FIRST OF ALL SO EARLY?



NOW SLEEP AND LOOK AT ORNAMENTS ,, ARE THEY REALLY THERE?

BRIDAL MEHNDI