SUHAG AT SECRETS
Wedding Night (Suhag Raat)
It is always good to be hopeful about your wedding night. But it may not be as you must have imagined it. Wedding nights determine the value and level of intimacy the couple are about to share for rest of their lives. So start it on a comfortable note.
You need to be realistic and hope for the best. The celebration would have already tired you, so the need of the hour is to relax and brush off the exhaustion. Instead of behaving awkward approach your partner as a friend. Talk, be humorous and basically feel at ease and make your partner feel the same.
Tips for Marriage Night:
1- Firstly, you need to understand your own body and what it needs. Feel free to communicate to your partner about your sexual pleasures and fantasies.
2- Take a nap after the wedding and wake up to a fresh wedding night.
3- After having woken up, you could take a shower and change your clothes to feel clean and comfortable.
4- Set the mood. Light a few candles and play soft music behind.
5- Order for room service. Invite yourself and your partner to a romantic treat. There is no need to rush things, so take it easy and enjoy every moment of the night.
6- The next step would be to share thoughts about the wedding and each other.
7- Invite each other to shake a leg or two. Add some flavor to the night and think of ways to make your partner enjoy and do the things he or she has never done maybe.
8- Present your partner with a wedding gift, diamond or chocolates for your lady and any gadget or champagne for your man.
9- Then you could start with a sensuous massage. Get used to touch and make yourself comfortable.
10- Then eventually go for a bubble bath.
Lastly, even if sex wasn’t as great as you thought it would it be, then relax, you got a lifetime to make it as exotic and beautiful
Creating an ambience of love and passion adds to the beauty of this night. So, do it with candles, wine and flowers. Let your partner be floored by you and all the things you are doing, to make this night, the best moment of your lives.
Remember These Things:
Abstain from sex for weeks or months prior to the wedding night
Don’t drink too much of alcohol as you could be clumsy or even sleepy after that
If you don’t want children so early then do take precaution and feel free to discuss with your partner.
Wedding Night, Marriage Night, Suhag Raat, Suhag Night
The Beginning:-

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Both Of You will get ready by 9.30 pm to 10.00pm. The bride will have her own make up wearing traditional saree, ornaments, mehendi.The Bride might have a chance to go to a beauty parlour to get her ready.

Usually, the elder women help her prepare for the suhaag raat by advising her what can possibly happen and how she should react. The bride on the other hand is clad in Kurta - Paizam.

Both the Bride and Bride groom are allowed to go inside the Suhaag raat room, a traditional bed having lots of different flowers is prepared. The room is scented. Usually the flowered be will have dunlop kind of matress with pillows.

A traditional "aarati" is made to bless the bride and bride groom in their sex life. Once the "aarati" is over the elders start leaving the room. The room is securely locked, and there will be only YOU.

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How To Proceed: -

Proceed very slowly. It is good chance for the bride to tell her husband what stage of her MC is, is she expecting her period or is it just over.

Suhaag Raat Should be full of foreplay, you both should be ready to spare a minimum of 5 hours for understanding each other and talking about sex. It is not worth sleeping that night. You have lot of nights to p. It is the night you have to enjoy.

ForePlay Starts : ---

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Ask her the knowledge of sex. It is not a shame if she had some previous knowledge of sex, or if she know what is kissing.. talk lot about foreplay techniques like kissing, fondling, sucking, licking...

Just talking these can arouse both of you and may make you ready for sex. But, go Very SLOWLY.

Hold her hands, see her Mehendi, try searching your name. Usually, husbands name is printed on hands. Look at her nails, nail polish..

both nails and toe.

Slowly Kiss her hands and palm and fingers. A passionate kiss on fingers may send her feeling signal to her.

Remove her finger ring.

Remove her bangles - both hands

Remove her Hand Cuffs

Remove her ear rings

Remove her bracelet

Remove her necklace

Remove her Mangalsutra

Remove her Head ornaments

Remove her Foot ornaments , if any.

Bangles make noise and may break and ornaments may be lost. Keep all removed ornaments on table or a place you ca get them easily.

Take ample time to remove ornaments/jewlerry/bangles. Ask her her help, if you cannot remove on own.

Make her bare of ornaments/ jewlerry

Proceed As Below : -

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It is time to kiss her and feel her

Kiss her on her nails, palm

Kiss her on wrist (both)

Kiss her on her hands

Kiss her on her ears

Kiss her on her back of neck

Kiss her on hair

Kiss her on forehead

Kiss her on cheeks

Kiss her on neck

Kiss her on chin

Kiss her on shoulders

Give a very passionate and very light Kiss on her LIPS. You may want to twist her and your mouth to come closer and face to face.

Kissing usually results in generating lot of feelings in her and you.

It Is Time to make her bare :-

Making a women bare when she is in Saree is a lot of fun.

Let your hands move slowly and very slowly over her shoulder in searh of saree pallu pin.

Remove the Saree Pallu Pin.

Now you have to slowly slide her saree pallu down.

WOW, WOW.....

It is great moment..... It is really great moment, you are looking at her breasts in her blouse.

Imagine the size of them.. Ask her BRA size,, front open or back open...

If women did not have sex before, she will feel shy and may cover her breasts using hands...

Let your hand move all over her blouse, hands, shoulders...

Move hands all over her BRA belt, BRA Lace ... and then all over her Breasts. It is time your hands should feel her breasts.

Kiss her brests

Kiss in between breasts

Give a Light Squeeze.

This starts increasing Womens sex feelings.

It is up to the bride groom to start removing his Kurta-Piazama....

Remove her blouse buttons one by one

Remove her blouse

WOW .... Have u seen a women in BRA...?

Time for slowly playing with her breasts. Play like

Cup her breasts using your hands

Fondle her breasts

Kiss her breasts

Slide her BRA belt and play with her naked shoulders..

Remove her BRA....



WOW ... Its all here ..... very tender, very milky, very soft... very gentle breasts in front of you...

Kiss Breasts

Kiss Nipples

s*** Nipples

Cup her breasts in hands

Lift Breasts in hands

Lick Nipples

Bite lightly on nipples

Fondle Breasts like lemon squeeze

Sure, she is now ready and must have started bit of moaning.

Give her Kiss on her LIPS. Use tongue.

It is Time to make her completely bare :-

It requires removing her saree and petticot and then a panty.

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Next Foreplay : ----

Licking all over her thighs

Licking her buttocks

Pressing her buttocks

Moving hands all over buttocks

Moving hands all over feet, legs,toes, thighs



Next Foreplay : ---

A kiss on her Cunt sends a very strong signal of feelings and prepares her.

Use your right hand and middle finger. Move hands all over her thighs and bring very near to her cunt , start teasing very near part using middle finger. You may like to start kissing her on LIPS...

Let your middle finger, start slowly go inside her cunt in search whether she is wet or not...Do, in and out... several times...

Next Foreplay :---

It is time for you to become naked and show your penis to her...

Usually it requires understanding between wife and husband about oral sex.. If she does not like .. leave it ... do not force.. her..

If she agrees.. here it goes.

You p. Let her sit near penis and bend.

She holds the penis in her soft hands

She looks at the penis

She plays with testis

She plays Penis using her hands doing up/down..

She starts kissing the penis, first on top and then middle and then bottom.

She starts licking the penis, first on top, middle and then the bottom.

She then opens her mouth and Creates a "O" shape, her lips are open wide to have perfect "O" Shape.

She bends and starts to take penis slowly in mouth.

You will surely moan, It is time for to pamper her hair, her ears.

Play with her hair and her ears.. when you are in her mouth.

DO NOT FORCE HER TO EAT YOUR CUM.. IT IS VERY BAD.. SHE MAY DISLIKE AND NEVER DO ORAL AGAIN...



TIme to Join...



All this foreplay, kissing, licking, sucking, fondling... takes to one last course.. It is intercourse or Fucking.

You find a best position. The best during suhaag raat, is she sleeps below and You p over her..

If she is not sufficiently wet, allow more foreplay. You may use hair oil in her cunt.. to make it wet..

Give Her very small jerks first.. let your penis go inside cunt slowly.

Once it reaches the limit open and insert again...

Doint this with low, medium, high jerks can cause lot of satisfaction for you and her....



Please be aware that, if she does not clot blood it does not mean that she is not vergin.. A Woemn can lose hymen as early as her childhood playing a cycle or cricket or goliii...



The suhaag raat should end in enjoyment and both of you should be relieved and happy once intercourse is over..



NOW THINK - DO WE NEED CONTRACEPTIVE, PILLS, DO WE NEED A CHILD FIRST OF ALL SO EARLY?



NOW SLEEP AND LOOK AT ORNAMENTS ,, ARE THEY REALLY THERE?